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Thursday, December 31, 2020

Keep refined sugar or high fructose corn syrup to a minimum and do not consume either within 4 hours of going to bed. Eliminating them is best.

 Keep refined sugar or high fructose corn syrup to a minimum and do not consume either within 4 hours of going to bed.  Eliminating them is best.  (This does not affect everyone the same, but if you are having difficulty sleeping, or someone is having difficulty sleeping, avoid these.  It’s better to avoid them all together.)


More on foods to avoid at the bottom.


Click here to continue the series: Avoid alcohol, while it may help you to get to sleep, it will make it more difficult to get a good night’s sleep (more information in the videos below)






Foods/drinks to avoid.
Absolutely avoid coffee in the afternoon or evening (or totally)




Avoid stimulants such as caffeine and nicotine

 Avoid stimulants such as caffeine and nicotine. Remember chocolate and many sodas have caffeine. (If you eat or drink chocolate or use other stimulants, do not do so within 4 hours of going to bed.)  Some may find it necessary to eliminate caffeine completely or consume only very rarely.



After watching the videos you may want to increase that to well over 4 hours before bedtime... but before the videos... click here to continue the series: Keep refined sugar or high fructose corn syrup to a minimum and do not consume either within 4 hours of going to bed.  Eliminating them is best.










Do not watch TV in your bedroom or use it as an office or for a computer room

 Do not watch TV in your bedroom or use it as an office or for a computer room. This is also part of conditioning your mind and body.


This goes for both adults and kids/youth.  You want the cues in the bedroom, not just on the bed, but as much as possible in the bedroom to be all about going to sleep.  Of course, there is dressing and putting clothes away, etc., but especially if sleep is difficult, keep the bedroom cues focused on sleep.

Remember, for a typical person 50% of our behavior and reactions is controlled by the old/mid brain and based on responses to cues.  When we are tired, stressed, or under the influence it raises.  For many with disabilities, it is MUCH higher.  Use that to your advantage if you want someone to go to sleep at a regular time on a regular basis… and stay asleep.



Click here to continue the series: Avoid stimulants such as caffeine and nicotine


Is watching TV at night bad for your health?



Why I Don't Watch TV in Bed




Stop Ruining Your Sleep By Watching Screens Before Bed #4 Dr Dani's Health Tips



Why You Shouldn't Watch TV | Brian Tracy


Why Are You Always Tired?











Monday, December 28, 2020

Bed is for sleeping and for adults, certain pleasurable activities. Nothing else.

 Bed is for sleeping and for adults, certain pleasurable activities, but nothing else. Do not watch TV in bed. Do not be on your computer in bed. Do not talk on the phone in bed. Do not use your smart phone in bed, etc. Do not read in bed.  You want the primary cue to your brain and body when you go to bed to be SLEEP! Never underestimate the power of natural cues, (music, TV, telephone, computer, games, etc.) that tell a child or an adult that it's time to sleep or time to play or be involved in some other activity. You want the cues associated with being in bed to be all about going to sleep.

If you or your child have been doing something different, perhaps for years, do not expect the cues to change overnight.  Do not expect someone else to be happy about losing access to a favorite activity in bed. 

You may have to make slow adjustments.  Make sure they have access outside of bed and in bed for a limited time, then gradually reduce their access time in bed.  Comfort items, such as a blankie, teddy bear, or other comfort items are great…and even greater if eventually they only have these at bedtime, because they become another cue, that it’s time to go to bed and time to go to sleep.

You want the cues associated with the bedroom to be all about sleep.

Click here to continue the series: Do not watch TV in your bedroom or use it as an office or for a computer room. System desensitization or successive approximation may need to be used here too. 


System desensitization and successive approximation are important concepts where you slowly make adjustments and even reward appropriate responses to those adjustments.  This often works much better than rapidly making huge changes to routines, children and teens, almost always, and often yours too.

How Habits Change Your Brain



4 stages of The Habit Loop.



Why Do We Have To Sleep?






Warm bath or shower

 

A warm or hot (not too hot, but comfortable) bath or shower right before bed can be very relaxing and conducive for sleep.  If this is for someone else you are trying to help develop a better sleep routine, keep it as consistent as possible.  Use a familiar soap for smell AND tactile sensation.  Keep the time as consistent as possible.  Make it as relaxing and pleasurable as possible.  IF bath or shower time is stressful and difficult, do not do it right before bed.  Do it early in the evening, well before bed or even in the morning. However, if possible, make it a pleasurable relaxing time, as part of your bedtime routine.

Click here for: Bed is for sleeping and for adults, certain pleasurable activities.  Nothing else.

Can a Warm Bath Help You Sleep? | Insomnia


Hot Bath Benefits - 7 Reasons Why Baths are Great for Your Health - Rasoop





Avoid sleeping too much or too little

  Avoid sleeping too much or too little. A couple of times a week you may stay in bed until you wake up without an alarm, and then don’t just lie in bed. (However, if you are chronically not getting enough sleep, you are better off to get to bed a little earlier than usual, start your sleep preparation routine a little early, and get to bed a little early.  But, do not go to bed so early that you wake up and are not able to fall asleep again for the night.)  Again, you want to condition your body and mind that the bed is for sleeping, not just lying around.  This goes back to the cues we were talking about.  Remember, the basal ganglia (part of the brain) is a powerful regulator of our behavior.  Habits are powerful.  Use them for your benefit, and the benefit of those you are trying to help.


Click here to continue with: warm bath or shower.


If you do this, the purpose for sleeping in until you naturally wake up once or twice a week is for those of you who are chronically not getting enough sleep.  Remember, when you wake up, at or soon after your normal time, get up.  My dog is very good about telling me she thinks it’s time for me to get up. 😊 If you are getting required sleep most nights, then there is no need to sleep in unless ill.  If you eat right, exercise, get enough sleep, manage stress, you are less likely to become ill.

I like the old poem or nursery rhyme by Wayne Fields:

The best six doctors anywhere 

And no one can deny it

Are sunshine, water, rest, and air,

Exercise, and diet.

These six will gladly you attend

If only you are willing

You're mind they'll mend

And charge you not a shilling.


Sleep hygiene, how to get a good night's sleep, for you and others, to include children, you may be trying to help.

Sleep deprivation contributes to poor physical health as well problems with: attention, concentration, reaction time, judgement, memory, academic performance, emotional regulation, behavior, and much more.

Lack of sleep is one of the top reasons for psychiatric admissions for teens.

Sleep Hygiene

Most of our behavior is controlled or highly influenced by the old or mid brain, learned habits in response to cues.  While it takes time and consistency, habits, or the responses to cues can be changed for almost anyone.  There are hundreds, perhaps more than a thousand cues which can influence sleep.

For example:

Routine: i.e., story time, getting into pajamas, bath time, dinner, etc.

Smells: i.e., dinner, smell of bath soap, etc.

Tactile sensations: i.e., warm bath, hug

Light sensations: i.e., lights turning off, getting dark

Sounds: i.e., relaxing music, “good night”

Taste: i.e., white string cheese, banana, warm milk.

And our very powerful circadian rhythm.

Of course, some children… or adults do not experience these cues on a consistent basis.  They need to learn to associate these and other cues with sleep.  The human is the only animal that can planfully and purposely reprogram how we respond to cues and triggers.  We can also help others, such as children, reprogram how they respond.

Get enough, but not too much sleep.  You may once a week, allow yourself to stay in bed until you naturally wake up without an alarm of some kind. But… when you wake up.  Get up.  However; if you are chronically not getting enough sleep, it is better to go to bed a little earlier, though not so much that you wake up and have trouble getting to sleep again.

Set a sleep schedule and keep it within ½ hour every night of the week; except for one or two nights when you may stay up a little, but not a lot later (best if absolutely consistent 7 nights and 7 mornings a week). If you must work a rotating shift schedule, keep a schedule according to your shift. (Rotating work schedules have their problems and should be avoided when possible.)  Keeping a regular schedule helps condition your body to expect sleep at certain times. Routines are crucial cues to which our body and mind learn to respond.  Young children can have naps, infants must have frequent naps and toddlers should have naps. Children should stick with the same schedule, within a ½ hour variance as much as possible seven days a week.

Click here to continue with: Early to bed, early to rise


Relaxing Harp Music: Rain & Thunder, Sleep Music, Relaxing Music, Sleeping Music, Fall Asleep ★120


 

Wednesday, December 23, 2020

25 MIN FULL BODY PILATES WORKOUT FOR BEGINNERS (No Equipment)


 

Gentle Pilates - 15 Minute Pilates for Beginners Workout!


 

Total Body Pilates! 20 Minute Tone & Shape, Legs, Butt, Abs, Beginners Home Workout, Flexib


 

How to Fix Shoulder Pain in Seconds (This Works!)


 

6 Ways to be Indispensable at Work | Brian Tracy


 

Reprogramming your brain to overcome fear: Olympia LePoint at TEDxPCC


 

Forgiveness: An interview with Jerry Jampolsky and Diane Cirincione


 

Gerald Jampolski - Principles of Attitudenal Healing


 

If You Struggle With Anxiety, This Mind Trick Will Change Your Life | Mel Robbins


 

Saturday, December 5, 2020

Healthy Holiday Smoothie: Pumpkin Pie Spice with sweet potato or yam

 My 15-year-old grandson tried this and thought it was "pretty good."  His words with enthusiasm.  This is another one of my insanely healthy smoothies.

In a stout blender add:

1 cup old fashioned rolled oats

2 large yellow delicious or granny smith apples, washed and cored but with the skin included

1 cup milk, I prefer almond milk

2 cups water

1 tablespoon chi seed

1 tablespoon hemp seed

1 tablespoon pumpkin pie spice

1 scoop protein powder, I prefer pea

1/2 cup stevia (you may prefer a little more or a little less)

blend well

add on sweet potato or yam (orange)  cut into small pieces and with any bad pieces removed but with the skin still on.

Blend well

Add ice

blend well

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